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Root cause analysis: when in Love

First & Foremost to demonstrate how hopeless this illness is, I asked Bard to generate an image for this blog ...the F***ng king of LLM models could not!! Here's proof :
The problem with love, let's do a deep dive : 

1. Qualifying whether it's Love or a Problem, it can only be either.

2. It makes you overtly biased and illogical. Because emotions begin where rationality ends...both good & bad, moderate & extreme.

3. There is never a ROI, or ROE ...or even ROA ...damn thing is supposed to be unconditional and catch is if you think about it, it's not love.

Do heck with love, fondness or any associated key metrics with it that's breaks ur spine, brings you down to your knees (not even in a good way) and basically makes you look like a complete stooge.

Do what this smart ass world does about it..."lust" not love. Quick, easy, deceptive, non accountably venomous chaos. Flirt around, hook up, don't use your intelligence or empathy (if you happen to have any left by your adulthood) .. just mind numbing hormonal drive converted to speech or actions whichever convenient at that stage of life. Doesn't matter whether ur "happily married", use other people's vulnerability to entertain urself, especially if ur good looking.

Karma you ask ? What does that have to do with ghosting, breaking hearts or being selfish and not considerate about the other person's feeling.

The difference between detachment vs indifference if you will.

Nobody needs love now. Maybe children upto an age till they find shiny things of interest that money can buy.

By the way this hogwash on self love... There is no such thing. It's a delusional by product of capitalism, placed carefully to ensure the maaya for "i" never dies. 

The soul doesn't need love, neither does God. The soul..it needs nothing from you. We need to realise the "i". Just being. There is no notion, no emotion to it. So stop this campaign on self love and just call it selfishness, self centered attachment because you have been disappointed by people so you have cooped up inside your own hole (literally) and refuse to see the world as it is and only catering to your interests. 

Just like Hate, for Love too... "An eye for eye will make the whole world blind" so if you pass on the coldness that you received from ur past experience to the ones who warmly approach you now, soon the world will go into into cold ages... No wonder so many people  only "Netflix n chill" these days. How much chill do u want to be machha ! Ur hearts stone cold and ur not doing any "self love" to your heart chakra by being superficial.

And men ! Please ! Everyone lives their lives, hustles, not hustles, wins, looses, breathes, taxes, family, etc etc etc ... Not prioritising communication because you are "always busy" at real things in life. Reminds me of a baby who thinks the world revolves around it and it's toys.

मोह एव महामारी।
Delusion is the greatest disease.... Bole toh, the destructive nature of delusion can lead to suffering & prevent spiritual growth.

लेकिन जिसका टैक्स ना लगे, और जो किसी चीज का EMI भरने के लिए काम ना आए, ऐसे काम की कामना तो लोगों में अब है ही नहीं।

The end (of aaj ki rantKatha) upadesh. Fin.
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